Defense Against Crime

January 19, 2013

Help Me I’ve been Raped!

A few weeks ago in Summerville SC a 17-year-old girl who was out jogging ended up being raped. According to the victim, she was running on the bike trail when she saw the suspect approached her riding his bike. She said the suspect then hit her on the rear and continued to ride his bike toward the YMCA. The victim said she became upset after the incident but continued to run. A police report states that the suspect reappeared, rammed his bike into the victim and attempted to pull the victim toward the woods. According to the Police the suspect then told the girl to “shut up” and pulled out a silver pocket knife. According to authorities, the suspect punched the girl three times in the face, and proceeded to rape her.

Later the victim, with blood coming from her face, was seen running naked on the trail and across Bacons Bridge Road. A motorist said the girl ran out in front of her car on the busy road. “She was screaming and she didn’t even care if she got hit by a car,” . “All I could hear was ‘please help me I’ve been raped.'”

“Help me I’ve been raped” is a cry what no one wants to have to say. But here are the facts

Sexual Assault FACTS

  • Every 2 minutes someone in the United States will be Sexually Assaulted
  • 1 out of 6 American women have been victims of either attempted or completed rape
  • 44% of the victims will be under the age of 18
  • 54% of victims will not report the crime
  • 97% of the rapist will never spend a day in jail
  • According to the CDC in Dec 2011 Rape is more common than smoking in the US

Just who are the rapist

Just who are these rapists? Contrary to popular myth that are not men wearing ski masks, hiding in ambush, to attack strangers and inflict brutal injuries on their victims. Are you aware that almost 60% of rapist knew their victims. There has been lots of research on sex offenders spans many decades and has contributed much to our understanding of the behavior and characteristics of rapists, their underlying motivations, and the developmental antecedents of sex offending. One study says there are essentially three types of rapist – the “power” rapist , the “anger” rapist and the “sadistic” rapist. In a research document called Understanding the Predatory Nature of Sexual Violence by David Lisak, Ph.D. of University of Massachusetts Boston states “The power rapist was motivated by his need to control and dominate his victim, and inversely, to avoid being controlled by her. The anger rapist was motivated by resentment and a general hostility towards women, and was more prone to inflicting gratuitous violence in the course of a rape. Not surprisingly, these types were rarely found in pure form. Most rapists were actually blends of power and anger motivations; however, a predominance of one or the other was often discernible. The third and (thankfully) numerically far smaller type was the sadistic rapist. This rapist was motivated by the sexual gratification he experienced when he inflicted pain on his victim. The sadistic rapist has become a staple of the American media, but these, once again, extremely rare cases.

Groth’s identification of anger and power as the primary motivations behind rape has endured, and has become the basis for attempts at defining more refined taxonomies of rape. These efforts have largely yielded modest results, and have focused on identifying blends of power and anger motivations, and on distinguishing developmental antecedents for the various types. Not surprisingly, among those developmental antecedents, one of the most prominent is a history of childhood abuse. Sexual abuse, physical abuse and neglect are all significantly more prevalent in the backgrounds of rapists than in the backgrounds of no offending men.”

What you can take from this is…rapist are out there..and you don’t know WHO they are.

What you can do?

While you can never completely protect yourself from sexual assault, there are some things you can do to help reduce your risk of being assaulted. There are lots of info about who rapist target, however most of this is bogus. Almost anyone can be a victim of crime and sexual assault…men and women. Here is a list of things you can do

  • Trust your Gut instincts. Nature has given you a built in alert system. Learn to trust it. If a situation or location feels unsafe or uncomfortable, it probably isn’t the best place to be – BE PREPARED to FIGHT or Take FLIGHT (Leave)
  • Always be aware of your surroundings. Knowing where you are and who is around you may help you to find a way to get out of a bad situation. Parking lots, Jogging Trails, and Parking garages are prime hunting grounds for rapist.
  • Don’t get distracted, especially by technology – don’t let your MP3 Player or Cell phone prevent you from not paying attention. If you think you are being pull out your cell phone and pretend to be talking to someone and tell them where you are, and pretend you are looking for them. This way the possible attacker thinks someone is coming.
  • Try to avoid isolated areas. It is more difficult to get help if no one is around.
  • Carry defensive items only if you know how to use them. Remember, any “weapon” that could hurt a potential attacker can be used against you if you are not well trained and comfortable with it. Whatever you decide to carry, be it pepper spray, a stun gun or even a handgun, make sure to you know how to effectively use it, and you have practiced with it.
  • Walk with purpose. Even if you don’t know where you are going, act like you do. Look up as you walk and look like you can kick butt. Attackers are looking for easy targets.
  • Take a basic self-defense course, such as Rape Aggression Defense (RAD) or Krav Maga. Contact your local police office for programs such as RAD, or look in the phone book for self-defense classes.
  • Work on being assertive. If somebody is giving you unwanted attention, tell them to back off LOUDLY and be as MEAN as possible. There is no need to be polite when somebody is making unwanted sexual advances.
  • Try not to load yourself down with packages or bags as this can make you more vulnerable.
  • Don’t allow yourself to be isolated with someone you don’t trust or someone you don’t know.
  • Make eye contact if you are being followed by someone who you think is a potential threat. Your potential attacker may be less likely to strike if they think you will be able to clearly identify them.
  • Yell, shout and draw attention to yourself. Attackers usually have an idea of how the attack will happen. Mess up that plan. Fight like a psychotic cat, and yell loudly and strongly; The more attention you can bring to the situation, the more likely you are not to be a victim.
  • Mentally prepare if you are taken by a rapist. You must do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING in your power to escape even if it means hurting yourself, but try to HURT THEM. Sometimes, the rapist will kill his victims to prevent him from being caught or identified. If the rapist comes in your home, throw heavy items through windows and at the rapist. Make as much loud noise as you can. Do not get in the car or van with them if you can help it. Jump out of a moving car or crash the car if you are driving. Look for every opportunity to hurt them and escape. Take your extreme fear and turn it into extreme fighting anger at your attacker. Do not be passive unless you feel you have to because a weapon is on you. Never give up without fighting a battle, your life and your well-being are at stake.

Rape or Sexual assault is a crime of motive and opportunity. Ultimately, there is no surefire way to prevent an attack. If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual violence, it’s not your fault. You are not alone. Help is available 24/7 through the National Sexual Assault Hotlines at 1-800.656.HOPE, and online at rainn.org

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4 Comments

  1. You are so right rape and sexual assault happens all to often in this country. People need to arm themselves with non-lethal self defense weapons, such as personal safety alarms, a stun gun, or a pepper spray.

    Comment by Raymond Torres — January 19, 2013 @ 13:01

  2. Look into a very upcoming popular Self Defense called Krav Maga. This is a street style Self Defense that may just save your life. http://www.kravmagaofalbrightsville.com located in Horry County SC

    Comment by Dennis F. — January 26, 2013 @ 01:00

    • I’ve done an article on Krav Maga

      Comment by peppereyes — January 26, 2013 @ 15:26

  3. Dennis check out this post

    http://peppereyes.wordpress.com/2011/04/07/have-you-heard-of-krav-maga/

    Comment by peppereyes — January 28, 2013 @ 08:30


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